Another day, another post, this time with an advice for you.
I want to talk to you about one big mistake you MUST NOT DO if you want to steal your ex boyfriend back. This is the same mistake I did when I was trying to win my ex girlfriend back, and I know it is a BIG mistake because I wouldn't take any girl back if she would do this.
What I did that was such a big mistake? Well, I called her on evening, telling her tto agree to meet and listen to something important I have to say to her, and that she won't regret this. She agreed, so I went to her place, into her room, and started talking.
I told her that I now know where I was wrong, what I did wrong, and that I changed my whole perspective on our relationship, that she was right ...etc etc.
The I started telling her how it would be if we will keep seeing each other, how nice it will be, that we will do a lot of nice things together...practically I was begging her to take me back. At that point I didn't care how it looked, but now, when I think about it, I realize how pathetic I was, and what a HUGE mistake I did.
I practically let her have all the control over this relationship, let her be the one who pulls the strings. DON'T do this EVER! Don't let him realize that you would do anything to get back together with him. When a guy realizes that a girl would do anything to be with him, he would take advantage of that girl, make her feel miserable, and even humiliate her.(not all of us are like that, but I know some guys who did that, only to brag about it to his friends later)
And wait, this wasn't all. After I was begging her to take me back, he told me: "Once I make a decision, I don't go back. I want to be free, I realized I'm better off single than to be with you". Talking about a slap in the face.....
I wouldn't want this to happen to you.
Usually a guy wants a girl he cannot have. Don't go running to him as soon as he calls you and asks you to meet. Let him know that (even if it isn't so) you moved on, and you can't meet whenever he wants to. Especially don't you call him, and ask him to meet you.
I know someone who did this, called her ex boyfriend to meet, but she over did it, she called him too many times until she annoyed him and now he wouldn't even answer his phone when she calls.
Be patient, keep your calm, try to think things through, and give him a little space (this doesn't mean to let him forget you).
But more on this on a next post.
Talk to you soon! And Good Luck!